Grief and Loss Services

Grief is the normal emotional and physical response we have to loss. And loss can come in a variety of forms: the death of a loved one, the effects of illness, the stress of job change, the aftermath of children leaving home, the loss of a pet, divorce and even as the result of retirement. Each time there is a change in our lives, whether good or bad, we must leave certain things behind. This can result in feelings of loss and grief. At Grief and Loss Services, our mission is to provide support as you make this difficult journey.

Contact Us
Grief and Loss Services is located on the second floor of the Wine-Price Building. The Coordinator is Nancy Shomo, BSW, GC-C who can be contacted by calling 540-433-4427 or 877-294-5731, ext. 4427. If no one is available at the time of your call, you may leave a confidential message. You may also communicate via e-mail to nshomo@rhcc.com.

SERVICES

Bereavement Training

Help for those Who Comfort:
Resolve Through Sharing, now known as RTS promotes an interdisciplinary approach for working with grieving families who have experienced a pregnancy loss from the moment their baby dies through the period of grieving.

RMH employee, Nancy J Shomo, BSW, GC-C is trained and certified as RTS Coordinator and is prepared to train healthcare professionals or anyone who comes into contact with parents experiencing the loss of a baby during pregnancy or shortly after birth.

Training Information:
This comprehensive one-day program provides insights, knowledge and hands-on experience to gain the skills necessary to interact with families experiencing perinatal loss. Participants hear directly from parents who have experienced a perinatal loss as well as from professionals who care for these families. Other topics include grief theory, interdisciplinary approaches, creating memories, follow-up procedures and strategies for intervention. Each participant receives perinatal bereavement resources and standards of care for pregnancy loss, stillbirth and newborn death.

Seminar rates: $75.00 per person

For more information or to schedule a training for your facility, contact:

Nancy J Shomo, BSW, GC-C
Coordinator, Grief and Loss Service
RMH Center for Behavioral Health
235 Cantrell Ave.
Harrisonburg, Va. 22801

Educational Workshops and Seminars and Support Groups
Grief and Loss Services also offers educational workshops, bereavement training and educational seminars to the general public. If you would like to schedule a workshop, seminar or speaking engagement, please contact Grief and Loss Services.

Click here for a listing of our workshops, screenings and support Groups.

Special Events

	Bereaved Parents Christmas Tree Service
	Spring National Hospice Teleconference
	Annual Remembrance Service
	Annual Survivors of Suicide Teleconference

All special events are free and open to anyone who would like to participate.

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS ABOUT THE GRIEVING PROCESS

What are some symptoms of grief?

Physical

	Headaches		Crying
	Fatigue		Absent-mindedness
	Tightness in the throat		Sighing
	Heaviness in the chest		Rapid heartbeat
	Change in sleep patterns		Increased sensory awareness
	Changes in appetite

Emotional

	Numbness, shock		Feelings of being lost
	Intense Sadness		Anger
	Yearning		Bitterness

Spiritual

	Feelings of closeness to God		Searching for meaning
	Anger at God		Increase of fear
	Strengthening of Faith		Fostering of personal growth
	Questioning one's faith		Redefining relationship with God

How Can I Provide Support to the Bereaved?
There are practical things you can do to assist:

	send cards or flowers
	prepare food, provide childcare
	mow the lawn, assist with housework, provide transportation

You may also consider the following when providing for the bereaved:

	Stay Connected. Sometimes, the grieving person does not want to talk or listen, nor do they want you to talk or listen. They simply want you to be there for them.
	Allow the individual grieving the full range of their emotions.
	Be patient and understanding. LISTEN. Don’t claim to know how the other person is feeling. You don’t have answers. Keep in mind that we have two ears and one mouth for a reason.
	Allow reminiscing, repeated story-telling.
	Acknowledge special dates, events, holidays.
	When in doubt, never underestimate the power of a hug.